By Plinio Corrêa de Oliveira
What is chivalry precisely? Is it only courage during battle? Or is it something beyond that?
The spirit of chivalry is first of all a way of being, a mentality which is manifested mainly in combat but also throughout a man’s life and outlook, in everything.
For example, today when someone wants to say that a man has very distinguished and elevated manners, one may call him a perfect gentleman. Why so? What do distinguished and elevated manners have to do with being a gentleman? A man who behaves very well in a drawing room conversation is called a gentleman. Yet a drawing room appears to be the opposite of a battlefield.
Why is a man called a perfect gentleman in a drawing-room and a knight on the battlefield? When one wants to say that a man has a piety proper to a knight, one means a certain kind of piety rather than another.
(Excerpt from a Chá of Tuesday, October 3, 1989.)
(Nobility.org translation.)